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我想信任你,但我又不敢:当你对他人持怀疑态度时前进的方法

Lysa TerKeurst | 2024 | ISBN: 1400211824 | English | 256 pages | ePUB | 4 MB

New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst shows you what to do with your skepticism and distrust so you can heal from past betrayals and move forward with strength and resilience.

Trust is the oxygen of all human relationships. But it's also what trips you up after you've been burned. Maybe a friend constantly lets you down. A leader or organization you respect turns out to be different than they portray themselves to be. A spouse cheats on you. A family member betrays you. You're exhausted by other people's choices and starting to question your own discernment. And you're wondering, If God let this happen, can he even be trusted?

How can you live well and step into the future when you keep stumbling over trust issues? Lysa TerKeurst says it's not simply about finding better people to walk with. It's about developing the stability you long for within yourself and with God, so you don't become cynical and carry a broken belief system into every new relationship. In I Want to Trust You, But I Don't, Lysa shows you how to

• identify which of the eleven relational red flags are stirring up distrust, so you can pinpoint why you're feeling uneasy; • stop having more faith in your fears coming true than God coming through for you by asking crucial "what if" questions to better process your doubts; • recognize when a fractured relationship can be repaired by considering a reasonable list of characteristics necessary for rebuilding trust; and • understand the physical, emotional, and neurological impact of the betrayals you've experienced and start healing from the inside out.

In a world where so many things feel alarming, this book will give you a peace that isn't dependent on unpredictable people, circumstances, and experiences. Instead, it offers practical and biblical ways to make real progress toward healthier perspectives, relationships, and a future you can authentically look forward to.


纽约时报畅销书作家Lysa TerKeurst教你如何处理你的怀疑和不信任,以便从过去的背叛中痊愈,并以力量和韧性向前迈进。 信任是所有人类关系的氧气。但当你受骗后它也成了你绊倒的原因。一个朋友常常让你失望;你尊敬的一位领导人或组织其实与他们对外展示的形象大相径庭;你的伴侣出轨;家人背叛你……你对别人的选择感到精疲力尽,开始怀疑自己的判断力了。而你也正在问自己:如果上帝都能允许这种事情发生,他还值得信赖吗? 当你在信任问题上不断跌倒时,你是如何才能好好生活并迈向未来呢?Lysa TerKeurst认为这不是在寻找更好的人同行的问题,而是要培养你内在与神一致的稳定性,这样你就不会变得消极且带着一个破碎的信念系统去面对每一个新的关系。在《我想信任你,但我不行》一书中,Lysa教你如何 • 识别导致不信任的十一种人际关系红灯,以便找到你感到不安的原因; • 在相信自己恐惧到来的可能性多于上帝眷顾你的可能性时,通过提出关键问题“如果万一”来更好地处理自己的疑惑; • 当一段破裂的关系有可能被修复时,考虑一个重建信任所需的基本特征; • 理解你所经历的背叛所带来的身体、情感和神经系统的冲击,并从内到外开始治愈。 在一个让人感到不安的世界里,这本书会给你一种不依赖于不可预测的人、情况和体验的和平感。相反,它提供实际且圣经般的方法来朝着更健康的视角、关系和你可以真诚期待的未来迈出步伐。
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